tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6320269312957801390.post6739703762894738058..comments2024-03-16T11:09:05.148-07:00Comments on TalkToYoUniverse: Internalization, Silence and AvoidanceJuliette Wadehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02879627074920760712noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6320269312957801390.post-67059043917995525042010-10-05T15:00:06.885-07:002010-10-05T15:00:06.885-07:00Well, Megs, it sounds like she's making a deli...Well, Megs, it sounds like she's making a deliberate choice to needle you! I'd call that a legitimate but non-default option in turn-taking...Juliette Wadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02879627074920760712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6320269312957801390.post-31297497432723592010-10-04T18:21:08.461-07:002010-10-04T18:21:08.461-07:00I mostly notice this in its malfunctioning. My sis...I mostly notice this in its malfunctioning. My sister seems to be of the mind that turn-taking works like this: she says something that is just flabberghastingly in need of correction and then tells me to just stop talking as that is her way of ending a conversation. I disagree that turn-taking is acceptable in this way and respond (it IS the default).<br /><br />When I want to end a conversation, I do so INSTEAD of taking my turn.<br /><br />You can't just say something and not give somebody a chance to respond 'cause that's not how conversation WORKS. When I read this, I just kept nodding and going yes, yes, now if my sister would actually believe this if she read it. (she probably would, but ignore it anyway. :sighs: )Megsnoreply@blogger.com